unconventional solutions
“And don’t fight anymore …” (part 2)
Is there a way out? – First of all, do not be nervous, as this is the problem of most two-year-olds. -l The baby has begun a new period of development and, as a result, outbreaks of aggression. – When you want to get angry and even punish the aggressor, try not to. This can cause a neurotic reaction or even greater aggression. If another baby came to visit you, and your child does not let him play his toys, then no matter how embarrassing you are, do not try to take them away by force and do not shame him – this will only strengthen the possessive feelings of the crumbs. – Try to let the children solve their problems themselves, but within certain limits. Small fights with a push and a squeal are quite acceptable when the kids learn to communicate. Continue reading
Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 4)
In order for the story to be therapeutic, it is important that the following rules are followed:
The situation should be close to the child, should resemble his life story.
The hero in a fairy tale is faced with a similar insoluble problem, a conflict situation.
In the tale may appear “helpers” – fairies, wizards. They give clues, but do nothing for the hero.
He has solutions, but the hero himself makes the choice. Continue reading
