Becoming an exemplary parent is not easy for a teenager, but why not try? Even if you already have enough life experience, you can always try to overcome the wall that appears between generations. Even a modest attempt your child will appreciate over time. We’ll figure out what you need and what you don’t need to do to become a cool parent. Risk factor: problems of adolescents Before trying to get closer to your child, you need to understand that during the transitional return he has many difficulties that a parent must help him solve. The main problems: lack of independence with the need for independence. On the one hand, a teenager already considers himself an adult, but on the other, he cannot solve many problems himself. This leads to conflicting behavior when the child refuses to fulfill the requirements of adults, but at the same time seeks their support; difficulties with self-esteem. Continue reading
What does a teenager want?
1. The desire of a teenager to feel their connection with parents.
If there is no emotional connection, the child will feel insecurity, feel abandoned. A teenager who feels abandoned will often ask questions: “What is wrong with me? Why don’t parents care about me? ”Take time to talk with the children !!
2. Teens want to be accepted:
Accept your children for who they are. Do not try to compare them with others. “My parents love me, everything is fine with me” – this is the opinion of the teenager who is being accepted. The rejected teenager thinks: “They don’t like me. I’m not good enough for them. They would like me to be different. ” A child who feels rejected does not feel love. Continue reading