All works are good - choose to taste!
For many years, the lines from Mayakovsky’s poem were very popular among teachers, parents, and students facing a choice of life path. Today, the answers to these questions have become…

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Teens and parents (part 1)
It seems to me that for no generation the task of educating adolescents has not been as difficult as it is today. Many of the parents I meet in counseling…

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How to grow a successful person?
How often do we parents think about what we can give our children? It would seem that everything is obvious - good living conditions, proper nutrition, decent education ... But…

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Tale to the rescue (part 2)

Do-it-yourself miracles What problems do their parents turn to fairy tales therapists? This includes numerous children’s fears, and increased aggressiveness, and hyperactivity, and laziness, and self-doubt, and inability to communicate with the team or make friends, and even soreness. Often, it is with psychosomatics that the child closes from the problems that frighten him. “In a kindergarten group,” says Natalya Katsevich, a case from practice, “a charming girl cried for any reason: they didn’t give a toy, she didn’t want to sleep, the soup was hot, etc. This went on for several weeks, and then the tale “Tearful Masha” arose, which the psychologist read to the girl. Parents read this tale to her several times, and in the summer a miracle happened when the girl found a hedgehog and began to look after him – everything is just like in our fairy tale. Continue reading

Online games for children – prohibit or allow?

The issue of the harm of computer games has been discussed more than one hundred times, but not every parent decided to finalize the decision to prohibit this type of inactive pastime for his children. I wonder why? Perhaps not everything is so bad? And if you approach the problem with a certain amount of common sense and practicality, then you can find positive aspects in this way to occupy the child? Definitely possible. Everything will depend on the genre of the game, which the child will be allowed to play and on the dosage of time – good examples of completely non-aggressive educational toys at http://gamezgid.ru/igry-uxod-za-malyshami/. For the youngest gamers today, no one is surprised at the look of a one-year-old kid enthusiastically poking a finger at the tablet screen, and what can we say about five-six-year-old geeks who are just waiting in line to take an empty chair at the computer. What are they best at playing? Continue reading

What behavioral attitudes of mothers are transmitted to daughters?

In April 2018, the brand of toys Baby Alive and the famous child psychologist Larisa Surkova conducted an experiment on Instagram with the participation of star moms and popular bloggers. Thanks to watching mother daughter games with interactive dolls, Baby Alive was able to analyze the behaviors that daughters adopt from their mothers. According to the family and children’s psychologist Larisa Surkova, a woman both consciously and unconsciously broadcasts to her daughter the main behavioral models: attitude towards the child, the child’s father, herself and the world around her. Focusing on the behavior of her mother, a girl at an early age begins to form a scenario of her own future motherhood. Continue reading

Art therapy for children and adults. Receptions of phototherapy
In modern society, there is an ambiguous attitude to the services of a psychologist, to areas in psychology. Why does a normal person need a psychologist? What can he offer?…

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When leaving, do not turn off the lights! (part 1)
- Mom, do not turn off the light! “You know, I'm tired of your tricks.” You are already big - you’ll go to school. Well, what are you afraid of?…

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Interactive dolls and psychologist Larisa Surkova help mothers develop empathy in children
Family and children's psychologist Larisa Surkova reminds all modern parents: children who spend a lot of time with gadgets, especially at an early age, may later encounter difficulties in socialization,…

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Baby in parental bed: pros and cons
Not so long ago, all babies were swaddled up to about six months, so that their legs and hands did not interfere with a good night's sleep, exceptions: changing the…

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