Tale to the rescue (part 2)
Do-it-yourself miracles What problems do their parents turn to fairy tales therapists? This includes numerous children's fears, and increased aggressiveness, and hyperactivity, and laziness, and self-doubt, and inability to communicate…

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Say thank you, otherwise it will be worse ...
I did not notice how another year flew by and my daughter Yulia was three. Literally in a matter of days, my flexible and good-natured child turned into an imperious…

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The psychological readiness of children to study at school (part 1)
The psychological readiness of the child for schooling is one of the most important results of mental development during the period of preschool childhood. The components of children's readiness to…

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Baby in parental bed: pros and cons

Not so long ago, all babies were swaddled up to about six months, so that their legs and hands did not interfere with a good night’s sleep, exceptions: changing the diaper, hygiene procedures, bathing … But today, few swaddle. This also applies to sleeping with a child, if before it was not customary to take a baby to your bed, now it is normal, even books talk about it. So we will analyze this question “by the bones”. Advantages of sleeping a child in the parents’ bed: – Sleeping together is pleasant moments for mom and her baby, moments of peace. You don’t have to jump to bed at night, sometimes calm down for several hours, which means that mom herself can sleep longer, sleep is very important for the body. Continue reading

Etiquette from an early age (part 2)

Do not forget to praise him. Seryozha was so excited by the upcoming excursion to the zoo that he flew out the door, pushing the teacher away and knocking the girl down in the corridor. His mother, among the three other parents accompanying the children on an excursion, saw this with her own eyes and was simply depressed. “I don’t know what it is with him today,” she told the teacher. “Actually, he’s a very educated boy with me, he knows how to behave.” Even the most educated children at times admit terrible lapses. Often this happens when a child confronts a choice: follow already learned rules or a living example of an uneducated friend. If someone in the group begins to laugh at the new one and tease him, others willingly join, although they know that this is not good. If one of the children behaves ugly at food, he will surely have followers. Do not be surprised if your child is among them. This does not mean that he did not remember anything from your lessons. Continue reading

Online games for children – prohibit or allow?

The issue of the harm of computer games has been discussed more than one hundred times, but not every parent decided to finalize the decision to prohibit this type of inactive pastime for his children. I wonder why? Perhaps not everything is so bad? And if you approach the problem with a certain amount of common sense and practicality, then you can find positive aspects in this way to occupy the child? Definitely possible. Everything will depend on the genre of the game, which the child will be allowed to play and on the dosage of time – good examples of completely non-aggressive educational toys at http://gamezgid.ru/igry-uxod-za-malyshami/. For the youngest gamers today, no one is surprised at the look of a one-year-old kid enthusiastically poking a finger at the tablet screen, and what can we say about five-six-year-old geeks who are just waiting in line to take an empty chair at the computer. What are they best at playing? Continue reading

All works are good - choose to taste!
For many years, the lines from Mayakovsky’s poem were very popular among teachers, parents, and students facing a choice of life path. Today, the answers to these questions have become…

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Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 4)
In order for the story to be therapeutic, it is important that the following rules are followed: The situation should be close to the child, should resemble his life story.…

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Mom’s daughters, dad’s son
A lot of books have been written about parenting. Each of them has its own advantages and disadvantages, but there is something in common that combines almost all the popular…

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Art therapy for children and adults. Receptions of phototherapy
In modern society, there is an ambiguous attitude to the services of a psychologist, to areas in psychology. Why does a normal person need a psychologist? What can he offer?…

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