aggressive tendencies
Tale to the rescue (part 1)
As a rule, all parents understand that raising a child is a big and difficult job. And alone, and even alone, it is impossible to cope with it. Need helpers. One of such assistants for mothers and fathers has long been a fairy tale. The experience is shared by Natalia Feliksovna Katsevich, chairman of the psychological service of the kindergarten of the “School of Cooperation.” Hints and lessons “A fairy tale is a lie, but there is a hint in it, a lesson for good fellows,” says folk wisdom. And traditionally, all parents have resorted to the help of these hints and lessons since then, probably, as the first fairy tale was told. Indeed, who among us did not hear in childhood, for example, the story about turnip, did not worry about the gullible seven kids, did not sympathize with the hare, who was driven out of the house by the insidious fox … It so happened that it is in fairy tales that children of all times and peoples draw their first answers to questions of life, from fairy tales they receive the first emotional help, in fairy tales they find examples of life scenarios. Continue reading
Etiquette from an early age (part 2)
Do not forget to praise him. Seryozha was so excited by the upcoming excursion to the zoo that he flew out the door, pushing the teacher away and knocking the girl down in the corridor. His mother, among the three other parents accompanying the children on an excursion, saw this with her own eyes and was simply depressed. “I don’t know what it is with him today,” she told the teacher. “Actually, he’s a very educated boy with me, he knows how to behave.” Even the most educated children at times admit terrible lapses. Often this happens when a child confronts a choice: follow already learned rules or a living example of an uneducated friend. If someone in the group begins to laugh at the new one and tease him, others willingly join, although they know that this is not good. If one of the children behaves ugly at food, he will surely have followers. Do not be surprised if your child is among them. This does not mean that he did not remember anything from your lessons. Continue reading
How to grow a successful person?
How often do we parents think about what we can give our children? It would seem that everything is obvious – good living conditions, proper nutrition, decent education … But is this enough for our child to grow up successful? We cannot determine the future of our child for him. Even if we make every effort to provide it financially, buy an apartment, provide a solid bank account, we cannot be sure that he will be happy in adulthood. We cannot put a material straw for all occasions, but we can help him grow into a successful person. Let’s see who can be considered successful? Rich man? A famous actor? Great athlete? Psychologist Nadezhda Vladislavova writes: “A successful person greets every morning with joy, he wants to wake up, live, work, love. If someone wakes up without pleasure, he might need to think: what am I doing wrong and what can I do right now to change this. Continue reading
