Touch room as one of the methods of healing children and adults (part 1)
Caring for health, high performance, the development of the hidden creative potential of every person of any age in the modern world is becoming more and more technological. “Man was…

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When leaving, do not turn off the lights! (part 1)
- Mom, do not turn off the light! “You know, I'm tired of your tricks.” You are already big - you’ll go to school. Well, what are you afraid of?…

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Online games for children - prohibit or allow?
The issue of the harm of computer games has been discussed more than one hundred times, but not every parent decided to finalize the decision to prohibit this type of…

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Monthly Archives: October 2018

Night is tender

Our daughter thinks this is unfair. Every winter, since she learned to speak, she protests: “It is unfair that you and dad sleep together, and I am always alone.” I never hear from her such complaints in the summer, when no one wants to touch the wet skin of another, and even at night the fans are working, blowing our bodies apart expiring later. But when November comes — yes, November is there, we have frosty nights even in September — even an extra blanket will not warm if you sleep alone … Perhaps the daughter is right, complaining about the injustice of fate. But now, when she is ten years old and a meter and a half in her growth, she has already come out of the age when the children climb into bed with their parents. I feel a little guilty. But adults should have their own joys. At least this advantage I can not give up. Marital bed is one of the main joys of family life. Continue reading

QA by the rules

What do parents teach modern parenting books? Let’s open at random any. “If you feel offense, ask yourself what made the child inflict it on you”, “… you should treat your hobbies with respect, even if they seem empty or harmful to you, they have the right to their own desires and mistakes”, “ … avoid talking with your child between things, standing facing a stove or sink, etc., he should feel your full attention. ” And finally, the authoritative opinion of American psychologists is given: according to vital indications, it is necessary, as they say, to hug a child at least four times a day! So, if the child appeared instead of two at half-past five without one mittens, with wet legs and a “deuce” in Russian, mother, having been exhausted, having canceled the hairdresser and the visit to the dentist, turned everything upside down, but could not find the analgin, the rest of the ill-fated day cuddle with your child two, three, or even all four times? Continue reading

Teens and parents (part 1)
It seems to me that for no generation the task of educating adolescents has not been as difficult as it is today. Many of the parents I meet in counseling…

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The psychological readiness of children to study at school (part 3)
There are probably children in each class whose intellectual passivity leads them to the number of lagging, poorly performing students. The reasons for this kind of passivity often lie in…

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Say thank you, otherwise it will be worse ...
I did not notice how another year flew by and my daughter Yulia was three. Literally in a matter of days, my flexible and good-natured child turned into an imperious…

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Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 3)
Life stories can be a means of influencing forms of relationships; they help build relationships with loved ones and colleagues in a different way. The story as a guide to…

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