Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 2)
Another option for playing psychotherapy is to play a plot. The plot in question should resemble the real story that the child is experiencing. For example, if a girl feels…

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Comparative analysis of the structural components of personality (part 2)
We can apply this approach to study the personality of a teenager, taking into account age-related characteristics and the age norm. Thus, scientific psychodiagnostics is impossible outside the system-structural analysis…

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Tale to the rescue (part 2)
Do-it-yourself miracles What problems do their parents turn to fairy tales therapists? This includes numerous children's fears, and increased aggressiveness, and hyperactivity, and laziness, and self-doubt, and inability to communicate…

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Online games for children – prohibit or allow?

The issue of the harm of computer games has been discussed more than one hundred times, but not every parent decided to finalize the decision to prohibit this type of inactive pastime for his children. I wonder why? Perhaps not everything is so bad? And if you approach the problem with a certain amount of common sense and practicality, then you can find positive aspects in this way to occupy the child? Definitely possible. Everything will depend on the genre of the game, which the child will be allowed to play and on the dosage of time – good examples of completely non-aggressive educational toys at http://gamezgid.ru/igry-uxod-za-malyshami/. For the youngest gamers today, no one is surprised at the look of a one-year-old kid enthusiastically poking a finger at the tablet screen, and what can we say about five-six-year-old geeks who are just waiting in line to take an empty chair at the computer. What are they best at playing? Among those games that can have a positive effect on children’s perception, preference must be given primarily to role-playing, developing and fantasy options. Take an interest in the modern economic strategy of Wortonomics, for example. This is a wonderful development that allows you to stimulate the mental abilities of a young genius, opens a window into the world of new concepts, opportunities. The motor and logic of the kids is also much easier to improve with the help of online games – a vivid example of this is Fantazium. Little girls really like to pretend to be wise-experienced mothers, doctors, educators. There is a host of completely adequate and interesting games to help this desire, which allow you to care for virtual baby dolls and entire groups of babies – wash, feed, treat them, put them to bed, wear, walk and do everything that usually falls on the shoulders of adults. If you need to switch the game – this is the means by which you can always be distracted and give rest to the tense brain, which is sometimes just necessary. The humorous “Poneaili” or tourist quiz will relax at the same time and help broaden one’s horizons. Adolescents are interested in strategies; they teach how to navigate in space, increase concentration, attention to details. Develop organizational abilities, learn to do everything correctly and consistently, accustom to discipline and patience. Strategy like no other game requires mental effort, and for the growing organism it is not harmful. The same can be said about quests that require logical, balanced decisions to overcome the task. True, it is very necessary to filter the theme of the game so that there is no violence, murder, cruelty and other similar manifestations of aggression. Shooters – no. This is the kind of game that should not be carried away by either adults or children. They destroy the psyche, overexcite, stimulate the production of irrational anger. And most importantly – control. Take the time and choose with your child those options for online toys that would suit both you and him. Strictly limit the time behind the monitor – for younger children – no more than 40 minutes, for high school students up to 1.5 hours. Urgently take action if you notice that the child, except for the game he likes, talks about nothing, doesn’t know what to do with himself until he plays, rolls up tantrums when you try to limit the time or range of games, communication with peers is based on the topic of your favorite game.

 

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