Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 2)
Another option for playing psychotherapy is to play a plot. The plot in question should resemble the real story that the child is experiencing. For example, if a girl feels…

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Teens and parents (part 2)
What does a teenager want? 1. The desire of a teenager to feel their connection with parents. If there is no emotional connection, the child will feel insecurity, feel abandoned.…

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What behavioral attitudes of mothers are transmitted to daughters?
In April 2018, the brand of toys Baby Alive and the famous child psychologist Larisa Surkova conducted an experiment on Instagram with the participation of star moms and popular bloggers.…

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Baby in parental bed: pros and cons

Not so long ago, all babies were swaddled up to about six months, so that their legs and hands did not interfere with a good night’s sleep, exceptions: changing the diaper, hygiene procedures, bathing … But today, few swaddle. This also applies to sleeping with a child, if before it was not customary to take a baby to your bed, now it is normal, even books talk about it. So we will analyze this question “by the bones”. Advantages of sleeping a child in the parents’ bed: – Sleeping together is pleasant moments for mom and her baby, moments of peace. You don’t have to jump to bed at night, sometimes calm down for several hours, which means that mom herself can sleep longer, sleep is very important for the body. The child feels that he is protected, so he sleeps peacefully. But after all, not all mothers are comfortable sleeping with a child, here is an individual approach. – Body contact has a beneficial effect on the development of the nervous system. The world around is easier and better known. – When the baby sleeps nearby, it is easy to put it on the chest “on demand”, you do not even need to get out of bed. This is acceptable to those mothers who adhere to such a feeding regimen. – With mom, the child is easier to sleep, easy to wake up. Which, of course, allows you to draw up a specific daily routine. – It is easy to cope with all children’s fears at the stage of their inception: the fear of the dark, fairy-tale characters … If the mother is constantly next to the child, he is confident in the safety of the world, and therefore calm. – Preservation of breast milk for a longer period. – Maternal care, attention to children with birth injuries or who were born prematurely is especially important. Read also: if a girl has chest pains hair appears how to make jelly for a cake at home knitting a baby lenses or glasses: which is preferable to returning the parcel Canada Montreal Cons of a child’s sleep: – If the kids sleep with their parents for a long time, they develop a strong affection for their mother , at some point they begin to focus more often on themselves, this gradually passes. – If the child is accustomed to the parental bed, to wean him fall asleep next to his mother is more difficult every day. – If mother decided to transfer the child to her bed, it is better to put him on his side. If you sleep from the edge, a pair of pillows will be enough to prevent the baby from falling out of bed. – And sex? When a child is born, any mother pushes lovemaking into the background, all the strength goes to the child. Especially if the couple lives with one of the parents. So, intimate relationships are impossible, it is not known for how long. This leads to disagreements between spouses and misunderstanding (scientists have repeatedly proved that sex is very important for a married couple), it happens, it comes to infidelity and even to divorce. Think about it, are you ready to jeopardize your family happiness, will it be good for a child in a family where parents are unhappy? Sleeping with a child or not, getting up to the crib for each squeak or putting the baby next to each other is an independent decision of each mother. It is important that your decision is comfortable for all households, because this is the only way to maintain happiness and harmony in the family.

 

Etiquette from an early age (part 1)
Children brought up in life have a number of advantages: there is something in them that attracts and holds people. They feel much freer in society, including unfamiliar, easier to…

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Etiquette from an early age (part 1)
Children brought up in life have a number of advantages: there is something in them that attracts and holds people. They feel much freer in society, including unfamiliar, easier to…

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Touch room as one of the methods of healing children and adults (part 2)
The advantages of combining the training of psychomuscular self-regulation with the conditions of the Sensory Room can be determined by the fact that the Sensory Room, by its isolation, unusual…

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The psychological readiness of children to study at school (part 1)
The psychological readiness of the child for schooling is one of the most important results of mental development during the period of preschool childhood. The components of children's readiness to…

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