Game therapy

Doll - children's toy or sacred symbol
The history of the ancestors of all modern dolls totals neither more nor less, but more than 30 thousand years! One of such artifacts made of mammoth bone, the oldest…

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Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 3)
Life stories can be a means of influencing forms of relationships; they help build relationships with loved ones and colleagues in a different way. The story as a guide to…

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Comparative analysis of the structural components of personality (part 3)
According to the results of express diagnostics, the following results were obtained. In the cognitive sphere of adolescents, the level of thinking in this sample of German schoolchildren is slightly…

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Say thank you, otherwise it will be worse …

I did not notice how another year flew by and my daughter Yulia was three. Literally in a matter of days, my flexible and good-natured child turned into an imperious little despot. – Give me the juice! She commanded. – Now! “Do you know the magic word?” I tried to call her to order. This phrase acted flawlessly on her older brother Alyosha, but Julia did not want to give in to her. “Are you a hundred, fooled?” Was her answer. – Give me si-xi-s! At first, I only laughed at the little cheeky: before, she was a sweet, calm child, and I often heard the word “posyalist” from her. But time passed, and she stubbornly refused to treat me humanly. The word “please” completely disappeared from her vocabulary. Then I decided to apply repression: do not fulfill a single request without a “please.” After this, a terrible struggle began, which caused only alienation between us. Continue reading

How not to spoil your child

Continuous tantrums with tears and the demands of fulfilling all the vagaries of children will easily unsettle anyone. If a child is spoiled in childhood, he may develop a complex character, and in adulthood it will be difficult, it will be believed that everything is possible. Instruction No need to make the child the epicenter of the life of the whole family. Having done this, there is a risk that the whole life of the household will revolve around him. You can not put the interests of the child above your occupations and plans. You need to explain to your baby that you need to be able to wait, and you can’t constantly distract your parents. The family should have one “policy” for all relatives in raising children. If, for example, a child spilled a compote, and his mother scolded him, but his grandmother immediately regretted it, he would never understand what he had done wrong. Continue reading

7 MOST ANNOYING CHILDREN FOR Parenting

Many mothers will agree with the statement that raising children is hard work. Apparently, this is why others give advice on raising children – in order to facilitate her mother’s task. Unfortunately, many tips can only be annoying. In the first place in the list of the most annoying tips for raising children was the advice to let the child scream properly. Not all modern mothers consider this method acceptable, therefore advice of this kind is often perceived very negatively. In second place was the advice “pour it as it should.” Representatives of the older generation very often advise applying physical punishment, since the child is “too spoiled”, which cannot but cause irritation in parents. In third place on the list was the advice to young mothers to rest when the child fell asleep. But in fact, in addition to caring for a child, many mothers have other responsibilities, so taking a nap only causes irritation because of the impossibility of its implementation. Continue reading

Baby in parental bed: pros and cons

Not so long ago, all babies were swaddled up to about six months, so that their legs and hands did not interfere with a good night’s sleep, exceptions: changing the diaper, hygiene procedures, bathing … But today, few swaddle. This also applies to sleeping with a child, if before it was not customary to take a baby to your bed, now it is normal, even books talk about it. So we will analyze this question “by the bones”. Advantages of sleeping a child in the parents’ bed: – Sleeping together is pleasant moments for mom and her baby, moments of peace. You don’t have to jump to bed at night, sometimes calm down for several hours, which means that mom herself can sleep longer, sleep is very important for the body. Continue reading

When leaving, do not turn off the lights! (part 2)

“One girl often dreaded terrible dreams. Fortunately, as soon as the girl began to dream of Baba Yaga or an evil wolf, she immediately woke up with a wild cry and immediately escaped from her terrible dream. Once, on the night of Thursday to Friday, the girl dreamed of Baba Yaga 7 times, and then 9 times – an evil wolf. The question is, how many times a night from Thursday to Friday woke up from wild cries and fell out of bed girls grandfather? “Read also: how to calculate how many folds need to be made from 6 meters tulle to 3 meters children’s magazine for 8 years old how to hang curtains and tulle how to sew the petals of the flower to the hood which threads are needed for tatting Or here: “Baba Yaga has 3 warts on her nose, and Kashchei the Immortal has 6 more warts. How many warts are crowded on the nose of Kashchei the Immortal? Continue reading

Game therapy and fairy tale therapy in the work of a child psychologist (part 2)
Another option for playing psychotherapy is to play a plot. The plot in question should resemble the real story that the child is experiencing. For example, if a girl feels…

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Online games for children - prohibit or allow?
The issue of the harm of computer games has been discussed more than one hundred times, but not every parent decided to finalize the decision to prohibit this type of…

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Touch room as one of the methods of healing children and adults (part 2)
The advantages of combining the training of psychomuscular self-regulation with the conditions of the Sensory Room can be determined by the fact that the Sensory Room, by its isolation, unusual…

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When leaving, do not turn off the lights! (part 1)
- Mom, do not turn off the light! “You know, I'm tired of your tricks.” You are already big - you’ll go to school. Well, what are you afraid of?…

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